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Living From Within
4-Day Empathy Intensive

August 13th to 16th
In Manhattan


This intensive presents an opportunity to understand and practice empathy and self-empathy at a new level and identify practices you can use for the rest of your life.
 

Times and Dates

Thursday to Sunday,

13th 2:00 PM-4:30 PM
14th 9:30 AM-4:30 PM
15th 9:30 AM-4:30 PM
16th 9:30 AM-3:30 PM
 

Experience Level

The intensive is open to anyone who seeks to understand and practice NVC empathy.  No one will be turned away for lack of experience.  We are offering tracks for folks with levels of experience from beginner to intermediate to advanced. To get some experience go to www.theexercise.org
 

Food

For the August Intensive
Lunches are the responsibility of the participants.  A list of local eateries is extensive and available online.
There may be an option to chip in for communal lunches on Friday, Saturday and Sunday.
 

Lodging

Since this is a NON-RESIDENTIAL training, lodging arrangements are the responsibility of the participants.

Visit 
www.couchsurfing.org

to find free local lodging.
 

Location

NYCNVC Office & Conference Space
307 7th Avenue
Suite 1201
New York, NY 10001

Click here for map and directions


Tuition

Tuition for 4-days is $350


Registration

 R
egistrations are by phone only and include a dialogue (usually 5-10 minutes) regarding your NVC experience, your physical needs and comfort, your training needs, our understanding of details (times, dates, payments and so forth), plus any preparation we imagine would  add to your learning.


To Register Call Lyn

a
t 646 201 9226 
or email her at
eventcoordinator@nycnvc.org


 

 


 

 

with  Thom Bond
Founder and Director of  NYCNVC, Certified Trainer, CNVC

From Thom:

I have found, time after time, that it is our ability to internally empathize and self-empathize that is a key to being compassionate with ourselves, in our significant relationships and in our professional lives.  Through empathy and self-empathy we can understand what we want and how to get it in a way that is in harmony with our values.  We can hold a more compassionate view of the world more often. We can practice NVC.

These intensives are intended to support and inspire participants in breaking through and having a deeper and more sustainable integration of empathy and self-empathy than ever before. In a supportive, community environment, we experience challenge, guidance, nurturing and support in all the pieces that go into empathy, self-empathy and seeing the world empathically. 

Throughout our time together we will deepen our capacity for being present, being aware of our focus and our own capabilities and willingness, moment by moment.

Going Deeper

Feelings and needs are the heart of empathy
.  So our relationship to them directly influences the quality and depth of our empathy At these intensives, through practice and exercise, we will broaden and enrich our understanding and experience of feelings and needs (our own and others) and thereby deepen our practice of empathy and self-empathy. 

Throughout the retreat, we will build on that work with well-defined empathy and self-empathy processes to get immediate and
fruitful practice.

As an NVC trainer, I am committed to supporting myself and and everyone in sharing a level of connection that transcends conflict, enriches our lives, our relationships and our world. 

It's a great time in history when we can so clearly identify, learn and practice the skills of making peace, within ourselves and in the world.  I am profoundly grateful to be a part of that. These intensives offer a new way to contribute to a more wonderful life and world for generations to come. Plus, they are a a lot of fun!

If you are interested in coming to one of the intensives, or have questions, please call Lyn at 646 201 9226. If you have training questions please call me at 212 496 3111.  Thank you for reading this.

With Love, Thom 

Topics:

-Deeply Understanding Empathy and Self-Empathy
-Your Personal Relationship to Feelings and Needs
-Self Empathy Demonstrations
-Empathy and assisted Self-Empathy Sessions
-Distinguishing our Observations and Needs from What We Tell Ourselves
-Distinguishing our Needs from Our Strategies
-Self-Empathy and Making Requests
-Working with Triggers
-Self-Empathy in Dialogue 
-Self-Empathy, Pain and Suffering
-Distinguishing and Translating "should/shouldn't"  Thinking
-Self-Empathy and Making Choices and Decisions 
-Core Jackals and "Life Sentences"
-Mourning Unmet Needs

Practices

- Feeling Feelings
- Practice "Being"
- Connecting to the Energy of Needs
- Mindfulness Practices
- Mourning

- Empathy Demonstrations
- Coached Empathy Sessions
- Empathy Role Plays and Exercises
- Emergency Self-Empathy

- Connecting to Deeper Needs
- Embodying Needs

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